Recommendation: Crazy, Stupid, Love

Many would argue that the modern romcom is a dying breed in cinema, and they may be right. But over the last 15 years, Hollywood has still managed to produce some gems that are still top tier in the genre today. Crazy, Stupid, Love is one of those, a rare ensemble romantic comedy that juggles multiple real world themes but manages to fire on all cylinders.

Cal Weaver (Steve Carell) a middle-aged husband and father of two, finds his quiet and comfortable life turned upside down when his wife admits to an affair and seeks a divorce. Lost, morose and desperate, Cal crosses paths with wealthy and suave Jacob Palmer (Ryan Gosling) who mentors Cal in the art of modern dating. What follows is a web of intersecting relationships that spiral toward one of the most gloriously chaotic third acts in romcom history.

Every romcom throughout cinematic history lives and dies on one important element: chemistry. Crazy, Stupid, Love has chemistry in spades. Ryan Gosling and Emma Stone radiate a natural spark on screen that feels effortless, generating banter that has genuine rhythm, pace and snark. And yet, they both manage to portray a deeper vulnerability that adds depth to their characters, making it more that just flirtation as performance art. Steve Carell brings a heartfelt, emotional anchor to a film that otherwise may have fallen prey to becoming a slick montage of pick up lines. His character, Cal, brings a level of maturity often missing from modern romcoms, focusing on the real hardships of marriage, fatherhood and mid-life identity. But there is one thing this film achieves that many modern romcoms now lack. Sincerity. Yes, it mocks the common tropes, Yes, it nods to the typical grand gestures and  clichés. And yet, it does so with a complete sense of awareness of what it is, and remembers that one important rule of the romcom, that it should feel big, grand, and satisfying.

Crazy, Stupid, Love is a high-water mark for modern studio romcoms. Smart without being smug. Sentimental without being saccharine. Funny without losing heart. If you want the full ensemble experience, the kind that feels like a Saturday night cinema crowd movie, this is the one. It’s chaotic. It’s heartfelt. And it still holds up beautifully.

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